The ICE is here. Got to work this morning and holy monkey hell it fell to pieces. The phones rang off the wall, cancel cancel cancel and reschedule like a fool. Fine. Tomorrow, too. I did do one men’s cut at noon today. There’s always that one person…”It’s not so bad. I’ve driven in worse” whatever dude. I was just happy to make 23 bucks. Well, half that. So on my way to the car, I was walking in our little strip mall area and the florist says to me “want any roses to take home? They won’t make it thru the weekend” HECK YEAH. So, for coming in to work today, and taking care of my one client, this is what I got to bring home. Not to shabby for a stylist who only made $11.50 today.

Anyways, got home around 12:30 and have done laundry (my loveseat is about to buckle from the weight of clean clothes that I abhor folding and putting away) made a pot of chicken chili, and napped with my cats. I got up and was wondering around looking for fatass Stormy Soprano and here is what I found. Diet Dr. Stormy. and the rest of the fam…

drinking vats of vodka drinks and about to watch some great movies….

will cross fingers that we don’t lose power this weekend!

Cheers!

So, we’re in the middle of a major temp drop. 71 degrees out yesterday into last night, and this morning, we’re sittin at 32. GOOD GAWD! The freezing rain/ice is on it’s way as well. People, including myself, have gone to the grocery, stocked up on batteries and candles in case the power goes. I got the last two half gallons of milk. THE LAST TWO. now, if said power goes, I’ll just haul all my stuff outside to save but if it doesn’t, I will be nice and tucked in with fresh food and books and movies. Seriously, it’s going to be pretty bad. Who knows. We’re expecting, now thru Sunday, about an inch or more of ice. That’s a power line breaking factor, my friend. ugh. UGH I say. We’ll see! If things go bad, I’ll be gone for awhile. If not, I’ll definitely keep you posted.

It’s E’s birthday today. Or Kizz. Or Sally. However you know her. I know her as one of the most amazing women ever. . . one with whom I’ve shared many laughs in a dark bar, many tears on the curb of a street somewhere in Columbus, many pies one fateful Thanksgiving, hunted many a vamp via cell phone vamp patrol, shared many recipes and secrets of the heart, and one of the only that I shared a(cringe cringe) boy with….is it any wonder that she shares my heart as well? Who knew that all those many years ago as we bombarded her with greetings on the steet called Eddy, that she’d become one of those friends that I trust with my life and love with my whole heart.
I don’t know how to make it so that you can click here and go right to her blog, but i’ve linked it somehow and I say go on over and give her a big fat birthday wish! 117hudson.blogspot.com

Happy Birthday Sally.

Gave away the last two kitties today. . . well, gave away the last ones that I’m giving away. I’m keeping two. Scrunch and Charley left with Marymary this afternoon, and at last report they were “worrying the hell out of a jingle bell in the kitchen.” aaaaah. Nice for her to have life in the house.

Stormy Soprano, KikiMama, Sambo and Sweet Charlotte are here and the family is complete. One wonders if they miss each other, or if it’s just another shiney shiney moment in their all too frenetic lives…kitty ponderings….and I have a degree.

In other news, got signed back up in Weight Watchers today. Feel positive and happy and at my weigh in, practically jumped and screamed over the 2.8 lbs that I’d lost last week. Huzzahhhh!. 2.8. that’s like…almost 3! Hell yeah. That feels great.

Yes, I believe that the Double OOOOOHHHHH Seven title is fitting…and while I wish double and triple O’s for each and every one of us, here are a few things that I want to accomplish. The house thing, I covered earlier, but it’s still at the top.
1. Buy a house
2. Get health insurance
3. Start savings/retirement account
4. Talk with D, my financial planning friend, about the above and how to do it.
5. Focus on my health.
6. Get my whoohaa checked.
7. Continue weekly massage.
8. Succeed at moving up to a level 3 at work.
9. Continue growing my clientele.
10. Get to the gym, and make it an everyday part of my life…As is breathing, or showering.
11. Save money for a trip.
12. Pay off school loan.
13. Turn that payment into a car payment for a new car in November.
14. Learn about mortgages, and escrow, and interest rates.
15. Get really honest with myself about life, and what I really want out of it.
16. Figure out how to get there once I’ve done that.
17. Drink less alcohol.
18. Drink more water.
19. Remember to try to be a blessing to whomever I meet each day.
20. Audition and get cast in a show.

A lot of big stuff this year….Mostly financial for me. . . which is par for the course of a Scorpio. On top of that it’s ‘007 and we Bond girls are being just that. Dressed, jewelry, lipstick, a plan. I’ve stocked my kitchen with healthy foods, have a pot of the weight watchers veggie soup on the stove, have snacks bagged up ready to take to work so I don’t dive into the candy machine. Will get my Y bag together and hit the treadmill tomorrow…A new year. Scary, yes, but thank GOD we get a do over!

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!

I’m home from a night at our bar…complete with whistles an hats and girls with their tits waaaaaaaay out to here….and I have to say. . . I love a fresh start. I love the idea of a “do over” consistantly. We all get one. . . and as my best good friend E says, if you say it out loud, you are held accountable.

Let it herby be known that I say out loud, and hereby will be held accountalble for suchworth…(not a word, but am drunk, and dont’ freakin care)

1. will heretofore work on FORGIVING my father. and if forgiving is tooo damn much, will work on seeing him as human again.
2, will heretofore commence the movie club with MLynn and Nan one weekend a month to see great art, see each other, and hold accountable our goals for becoming healthy, and loving.
3. will heretofore see this year as the year as “007”. DOUBLE OOO SEVEN. This is a shoutout to all peoples everywhere…Be you male, female, confused, transgendered, or just the people at the bar I own….This is our Manifesto…(stolen right smoothe from my friend Barb’s mouth)

IT IS THE YEAR OF DOUBLE O SEVEN. THEREFORE WE WILL BE AND OR ACT AT ALL TIMES THUSANSUCH.
MEN: YOU WILL HAVE A PLAN. YOU WILL BE FORTHRIGHT. YOU WILL BE FORMIDABLE, HONEST, TRUSHWORTHY, AND ABOVE ALL ELSE…DAPER.

WOMEN: YOU WILL BE FORTHRIGHT, FORMIDABLE, DARING, TRUSTWORTHY, AND ADVENTEROUS…THERE IS AN ADDED SIDEBAR OF GLAMOUR, SEX AND THAT HINT OF SECRET….BUT ABOVE ALL ELSE, NO MATTER HOW WE FEEL, OR WHAT WERE WEARING…THERE WILL BE LIPSTICK…. OR GLOSS.

no matter what.

1) Having to sign in under “OLD BLOGGER” to do this stuff….I HATE IT!!
like I freaking NEED that shit? Really? REALLY? Quite frankly, I haven’t figured out the old version yet, much less feeling stupid and inadequate for not signing up for the new one yet, and now, I’m taunted at the sign in. How about you sign in under Bite Me….Or Sod Off.

2) James Brown died. The first “season” of me trying pot…( I was never very good at it, only tried to be cool in front of the cool folk…At the age of 27-28) My tour partner came over before we left for our Sunday drive to ….probably Cleveland and said, “ ask me why I’m James Brown.” My response....”uhhhh, why are you James Brownnnnn???” him-“Cuz Papa Got A Brand New Bag!” Adios friend. Your songs will carry you on. Heahhhhh!!!!!

3) I’m not so sure I want to eat cloned meat.

4) President Ford Died. While I think this should most certainly come before the cloned meat topic, it is where it is. I am a sucker for a Presidential Funeral. I guess Nixon’s was the first I was caught up in. Then Nancy clutching Ronnie’s coffin. Doesn’t matter to me what you are, red/blue/elephant/donkey/green/paisley. It’s significant and awe inspiring to see all the living Presidents lined up in that first row…and looking back on a life so fully covered in the press. Would that each of us had a press reel to roll at the end. With amazing music, surely scalped from West Wing episodes…..Rest In Peace President Ford. or….That’ll do Pig. That’ll do.

5.) Aulde Lang Syne always makes me cry.

Christmas is over. Flew by it seems. I like this time of year. I love and have always loved the holidays. I know I had stress during the high school years of a fresh divorce, but thankfully, those have dimmed and the best remain. Until this year. This year has been chock full of crap, and pain and tears, and very little laughter to be certain. . . And I feel cheated that it’s over. Going over it all in my mind, the choice was mine to feel the stress, to let it contain me, to fret and worry and carry all the nasty feelings around about Dad, and having to deal with his shit all over again…And things have been rocky in my own home…And and and and bla bla bla.
It’s over. and I feel like I missed it. My house is still decorated, the lights are still hanging, the tree is still up and I missed it. I feel empty and sad and just generally funky. I have so many thoughts that would be appropriate to jot down here, but it seems stupid, and redundant. Life is different, and while I’m a huge advocate of change….Maybe only the kind I pick out. Get over it, yes? yes.

But time has passed and life is looking ok again. I’m really trying to focus on the future. I feel ugly and fat and gross and generally negative, but I want to change that. The YMCA is calling my name. I am making choices again, and choosing me and not someone else and their stress and funk. I have decided to buy a house this year be it with Phil, or without him. And I gave away a baby kitty the weekend we did Christmas with my Dad et.al, gave the fat grey one to a fantastic mommy, but I cried all the way home and it broke my heart so much that I am not giving anymore away. Two are going to Mary and the other two are staying with me. So I’ll have four cats when I buy said house, but there are so many other things that could be worse, I’m not even worried about it.

I’m excited about being excited again. About Possibilities. About dreaming bigger. . . hell, just dreaming.

I have zero money, absolutely not one inkling about how to buy a house, or to get my financial life in order, or any of that stuff, but what the hell…people do it every day. and while I feel like it most of the time, fact remains that I’m not stupid, so that’s in my corner. We’ll see.

Meanwhile, a Happy New Year to you from me and my kitties. Stormy “the bird” Soprano and KiKiMama(not pictured),Charlie, Scrunch, Charlotte and Sam.

SO I sent out an APB to local friends today, seeking help, solice and drugs. That was after the insomnia filled night, and the early a.m. blogging and emailing. I get to work today, and lemme tell ya, it was a doozie. (more later on that) But I do have exactly 6 minutes to sit between clients and I happen to look out and see one of the Purple Pool Gal Pals pull up in the MiniVan. . . hmmm. The hell? I haven’t done her hair since the summer, and haven’t seen her since we closed the Purple Pool….

She gets out, looking so put together with her makeup and ass long bright christmas red nails, and she’s carrying a shiney little gift bag with pink tissue paper perfectly scrunched out of the top….

Four Valium.

Thank you very much.

I get home and there are fortysevenmillionfivehundredsixtytwothousand emails from all the friends, networking to get this to me, offering words, horoscopes, solace, humor, food, drink, and themselves as a venting/sacrifice kind of thing.

Tears. just gushing down my face.
Now, I know I’ve said that I’m on the edge here, and that the tears are always at the ready, but this is what it feels like to be loved.

And I need to work on remembering that.

Because a whole lot of the time I just feel alone, and out here paddling up this shitty creek with no one to pour the margaritas. It’s not true, I get that, I always know in my heart of hearts that it’s not true, but seeing it there in my inbox, in my shiney pink and iridecent gift bag full of drugs…

I am blessed. A Christmas miracle.

To top it off, I have hit 3499.00 for these two weeks. that is not counting tips. Minus 95.00 for income that I only get on the first of the month, and that’s what I’m getting 60% of.

To get 65%, one has to bring in 3600.oo….but I am pretty effing proud of myself…this is the end of my first whole year at getting paid for this and I believe I dun good.

Now. Off to get a beer, possibly order a pizza and pop one of those loverly gifts I recieved before I head to the bed. Yes, it’s only 7pm on a friday night, but I’m so doing it.